Somatics

Somatics

What is somatics?

Somatics is the study of the body from the inside — what it is doing, not what it looks like. In intimate relationships the body is responding constantly, below the level of decision.

Read the full explanation, and the five nervous system responses →

Find your pattern

The Nervous System + Intimacy Quiz takes about four minutes. It identifies your dominant response pattern and tells you what it looks like in your body, your relationship, and your sex life — with a free guide sent to your inbox.

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What the work involves

Somatic intimacy work is body-based. It is not talk therapy and it is not coaching. The practices work directly with the nervous system’s responses — through breath, movement, physical awareness, and carefully structured contact — until the body has a different experience to draw from.

Sessions are one-to-one, online or in person in Cape Town. Work typically begins with the quiz to identify your dominant pattern, followed by a free 30-minute vibe check to see if we are the right fit.

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